Sermon, October 12, 2008 by Sheila Vitali

I would like to start today by telling you all a little about myself.

·        I grew up in Wakefield, Mass   I have three older brothers and a younger sister.   I grew up in the Roman Catholic Church, St. Joseph’s Church.

·        The worst event of my young faith life would be the loss of our church to a devastating fire caused by incense not extinguished properly.  I remember watching the fire and smoke pour out of the church that day and was extremely saddened.  It tested the entire church community.  The experience was good for everyone because we learned the church was not just the building but the people who attended.  

·        I hold and Associates Degree in Business Management from Newbury College and a BSBA in Accounting from Northeastern University. 

·        I was married in the fall of 1995 a few months after the loss of my brother who committed suicide.  My son Jake came in the world in November of 1997.  After Jake came along my questioning of my faith was constant and I left the Catholic Church in 1999.  I chose not to practice formally for a number of years and then decided as Jake was going into first grade to find a church. 

·        I found my way here to the First Congregational where the Sr. Deacon at the time, Helen Carroll, welcomed me.  As the motto goes “I was a stranger and you welcomed me” for me that has made all the difference.   I feel hospitality is important.

How do we value the experiences that we have in this Church?   Do we value joining in Worship or Fellowship?  We heard last week from Penny Hurley and the week before from JP Durand that the fellowship of others in the church community is important to them.  That serving and being with others in worship and in fun was important to them and their families. 

I would like to share with you something I found in Dietrich Bonheoffer’s Book A Life Together.  Christians are privileged to live in visible fellowship with other Christians.  It is by the grace of God that a congregation is permitted to gather visibly in this world to share God’s Word.  Not all Christians receive this blessing.   Christianity means community through Jesus Christ and in Jesus Christ.  No Christian community is more or less than this.  Whether it be a brief, single encounter or the daily fellowship of years.  We belong to one another only through and in Jesus Christ. 

There are many ways in which one can be in fellowship with others in this church.  You can serve on a committee, you can sign up to help at one of the many community meals, you and join in on a progressive supper, teach Sunday school or sign up to make coffee one Sunday or you can simply come and worship. 

Have any of you use the phrase, this is my church family?  I am proud to call you my church family.  I look forward to coming each week and seeing Barbara Reinecker, Dawn Sheehan, Donna Ricarte, Phyllis Jennings, and Bob Miner with his colorful stories. 

Think about family.  How do we support our families?  Do we support our families financially by holding jobs; we have a home in which to live, etc.   If this church is our church family should we not support it?

How many of us can look back on a time in our lives and say God provided for me?    A few years ago when my husband was laid off from his job and having a loss of income when I was not working but attending school full-time for BSBA and being a full-time mother was extremely challenging.   The church was helpful to us during that time.  The pastor made himself available for my husband and that helped him a great deal and he was able to find employment faster because of it.  It meant a lot to me that the pastor would speak with us before the services we attended and check in to see how we were doing.

In Nehemiah we read, “once a year we will each donate a small amount to the temple of our God.  This will be used for the Sacred bread and for all expenses connected with the worship of God.  In Verse 39, we read, we will not neglect the temple of our God.  We must not neglect our responsibility to our Church. As members of this Church we have taken an oath to serve and support the Church. 

I know that these are stressful and difficult times.  The drastic changes in the economy have many of us stressed and wondering what will happen next.  I have read several books from financial advisors over the last few years and they will all tell you to continue to give to your favorite charities.  It’s important to feel as though you have some control.  It’s important in the way giving makes you feel.   

We will also have change in the White House and we will soon have a new settled pastor.  Please don’t let all this change wear you down. 

None of us like change but must accept and be open to change because without change we cannot grow, individually or as one body.  We must remember that as we grow older traditions must also change much like when your children, nieces or nephews grew up and left home to start families of their own.   Let us not be fearful but hopeful.  Please don’t let the fear keep you from supporting the ministries of your church.   

I would like all of you now to pull out the bulletin insert in today’s bulletin and recite with me the original Serenity Prayer. This beautiful Serenity Prayer by Reinhold Niebuhr has inspired countless people seeking peace and strength in times struggle, despair, and uncertainty.

by Reinhold Niebuhr.

God, give us grace to accept with serenity
the things that cannot be changed,
Courage to change the things
which should be changed,
and the Wisdom to distinguish
the one from the other.

Living one day at a time,
Enjoying one moment at a time,
Accepting hardship as a pathway to peace,
Taking, as Jesus did,
This sinful world as it is,
Not as I would have it,
Trusting that You will make all things right,
If I surrender to Your will,
So that I may be reasonably happy in this life,
And supremely happy with You forever in the next.

Amen.